The Second Annual
One-And-Only Full Monty Party
Last year a group of young professional men and women organized a party at a beautiful sunny beach in Southern California. The theme of the party was "The One-and-Only Full Monty Beach Party". A large number showed with a majority being female. Many friendships were made, and based upon numerous requests for a repeat, the planners have decided to host another. But this year we have found a fantastic venue - a wonderful estate.
Click on the following to see some of this year's guys that have confirmed they will be attending:
Here are some of our male party guests
And read about our last party and see some photos!:
First Full Monty Party - Story and Photos
What is the mission of the party?
As with last year, this is a private, not-for-profit
party for friendly, young people to meet each other and have a great time, this is the most important aspect. But unlike other parties, ours has a fun, very unique and a bit risque twist. The guys, who will be selectively picked to attend based upon their
attractiveness and good attitudes, will perform a full striptease for the girls. But don't worry ladies, although the men will be partying with us au natural, the women will not be required to remove anything, and it is prohibited for guys to request the girls to do so.
Basically, the theme of the party specifically requires the women to remain
clothed throughout the party for reasons discussed below. This is simply a party wherein the girls can come and be voyeurs, watch and flirt with nude guys, enjoy food and drink then return home in the evening without any pressure for sexual activity.
And all the men guarantee to be courteous to all women treating them with friendliness and respect, or they will be asked to leave. Full nudity is mandatory for all men present for the duration of the party, including
boyfriends, husbands and any males coming in your party. Some refreshments and music will be provided (hope you like Jimmy Buffet!). There will also be contests and prizes for all.
Who is invited? Who should Attend?
Space will be limited and is on a first-come, first-serve basis!
Where and When?
We are presently considering several venues to host this next party.
Last year we planned it at at the La Villa Estate (see link below). We would
like to get a strong following prior to committing to a venue such that the
venue will be closer to where most people are coming. It is our plan to
have these become regular parties during warm weather.
La Villa Estate
Cost to Come
As we've said, this is a non-profit event and we will request donations to cover our costs. We will be renting this estate, and therefore must ask for a small donation.
Any excess proceeds after payment of expenses are kept to host the next part of
the same theme.
- Q: Will there be open sex?
A: This is not a "swingers" party, nor is there an agenda for open sexual activity. We intend for all women to be comfortable and happy, and many will be a bit nervous being their first time and not knowing what to expect. But again, the women will set the tone.
- Q: OK, interested, but tell me, what is it like? Is it just a bunch of horny naked guys?
A: No, you'd be surprised at last year's event. First, the majority at the party have historically been women, and a good portion of the party was no different than any other cocktail gathering or social event. People talked about their jobs, hobbies, what they do and where they have
traveled. Pleasant friendly conversation was common. Since the guys are at the disadvantage (exposed and vulnerable) some may even be a bit shy.
With that said, the goal of many of the women is to tease the guys into an
aroused state, and they are quite good at it. So, there will be
"horny naked guys" at the party; however, no sex is allowed.
Of course, guys and gals do meet and leave the party together, but we never asked them to kiss and tell ;o)
- Q: I'm just a girl that enjoys a little voyeurism, and I love the "Haha - I can see you but you can't see me" quality of this party (finally, turn about's fair play!), but have no desire to pick up a guy or have a sexual encounter. Is this for me or is there another agenda?
A: Yes. The party is designed for girls like you as well as for women that enjoy being more empowered in a social setting - that is, they like the men being naked and vulnerably exposed with women in control. Our parties
are designed cater to both of these themes. But there is another equally as important agenda, and that is for people to have a good time and get to know each other as with any other fun party. Other
women come to meet guys and hopefully establish a post-party friendship, which is very possible given we
typically come from the same general region.
- Q: Can I bring some girlfriends?
A: Definitely - we encourage you to bring your girlfriends! This will make you feel more comfortable having friends present, and, will make it a much more
- Q: What do the women wear? Although it is not required for girls to undress, is female nudity
A: Dressing sexy is definitely welcome, although casual and comfortable
dress is the norm. Clothing worn by the women would be no different than
what you would wear to a backyard party or a day at the beach. It will
probably be held outdoors around a pool area, so dress accordingly. Historically, clothes range from a pretty sun dress, to
pants to even a sexy bikini bathing suit or thong. Although no woman will be ejected for undressing, we prefer for all women to remain fully clothed for the entire party for three important reasons.
First, if women also get nude, it will change the atmosphere possibly making it more sexual, and contrary to what we are targeting.
many women come with the understanding they will not be required to undress. If a good portion of the women are getting nude, those who do not may feel awkward.
These women have asked us to assure other women will remain clothed. And
we want to preserve a very unique dynamic, that is all women are clothed whereas all men are
completely naked. Women being clothed whereas the men are nude creates
an empowerment and advantage for the women through putting the men at a
disadvantage, and is what makes the event fun and enjoyable!
- Q: Is this legal?
A: This is a private, non-commercial party on private property. The venue will be secluded such that
the party cannot be seen from off-site by non-attendees. There are party houses in the general area where much more erotic activities (including open swinging) have been occurring for years unencumbered by law enforcement or neighbors. Consequently, we believe it is a non-issue and there will be no problems.
- Q: Will I be safe and not hassled by the guys?
A: All the females last year will attest that the guys were not only friendly and courteous, but some were downright shy. In addition, the women will outnumber the men.
Our goal is to assure that the guys are all nice and understand the theme. All males will be instructed to treat all women like princesses, to get them drinks if requested, and to be polite.
And anyone at the party that feels the least bit uncomfortable may leave at anytime. We will also have designated males (big guys) to act as bouncers for unwanted guests. Our goal is to make sure you have a good time!
- Q: Can I bring my boyfriend/husband/male roommate?
A: Yes, but he must read this web site, adhere to all of the rules, and, must also
remain nude for the entire party. And a word of caution...you will be
parading your significant other naked in front of other women, that may be
eyeing him closely, which is what the party is about. Consequently, only
bring him if you feel very secure and not prone to jealousy.
- Q: Can I bring a camera and photograph the participants?
A: We will have a staging area for photographs. Photos are
permissible anytime in this area, so guys and gals should be careful not to
wander into area where photos are allowed. Outside of the area, photos
are only permitted upon mutual consent. Many of the guys actually enjoy
having their nude photos taken with women! So yes, bring your camera as we are sure you'll have the
opportunity to have some pictures taken of you partying with some naked men
for this year's Christmas cards (but keep it in your bag until the time is
right). No commercial photographers are invited.
- Q: I love flirting with and sexually taunting guys to get them aroused
although I may have no desire to have sex or anything. How do you feel about a prick tease like me?
A: We love you! Prick teasing is encouraged and is an integral part of the theme of the party! With the guys being fully exposed
all the girls are afforded the rare opportunity to instantly see the guys' physical reactions to whatever prick teasing technique the girls are
bestowing...so you can certainly get in some quality practice!
- Q: Is this a female-dominance/bdsm party, or, is it something else?
A: This is not the traditional femdom/slave environment wherein men are
subjected to humiliation and forced into obedience. Femdoms have
come to our parties and enjoy it, as do feminists that enjoy the empowerment
of women over men wherein the men undress for the pleasure of the women with
the men not being afforded the same in return. The men
coming all must pledge to be respectful, and polite to the women, and most
importantly, they understand that at our parties the women's pleasure and
enjoyment are placed first, even if (and especially if) it is at the expense
of the men's embarrassment or awkward feelings.
- Q: Will the guys be getting erections? Will they be touching themselves in a self-erotic way?
A: With the amount of teasing that went on last year, almost every guy was
parading about with a full erection at one time or another, much to the viewing delight of the women. So yes, you can expect to see erections...and for that matter, some of the contests and events involve erections (see below). As it pertains to the guys relieving their sexual frustration as the women watch, again, we will leave it to the women as to what they desire. So far the preponderance of women are in favor of observing the men perform auto-erotic acts, provided it is done in a sensuous, sharing way that is not overbearing on the
theme (and there is a history of such performances at our parites). But we believe the reality is that most men will be too inhibited absent a lot of
encouragement from the women...so again, the tone will be set by the gals.
And if it is the collective desire of the females present is to watch the men
perform such acts, we will expect for the men, in the spirit of putting the
women's enjoyment first, to accommodate the women and allow them such viewing
- Q: Can I touch the guys?
A: Again, this is a private, non-commercial party, so fondling is certainly
going to happen! As long as the guys and gals are enjoying themselves,
women may touch, pinch, fondle, grab, grope, massage, stroke, the guys
anytime and anywhere on their bodies. However, the men are not allowed to touch the women in a sexual manner without their prior granting of
such, and the women must always keep their clothes on.
- Q: What type of games/contests will be played?
A: Some of the girls have suggested the following: Best buns, best chest and biggest balls contests, a ring toss contest, "Guess who's attached to that?" and a "Minute Man" contest in which the guys are teased by female contestants and the girl that gets the first guy to "rise to the occasion at full attention" wins. In addition we would like to finish the hand vs. penis size survey started last year, in which the girls measured the length of the hands of the guys as compared to the length of their erect
penises to ascertain the truth in the ole wives tale. Would love more suggestions!
I'd like to know more & put me on your mailing list!
Email us at the below address with any questions. Men wishing to participate must include a full description of themselves including age, height, weight, general occupation and at least two photos of themselves, which will be verified Note: those that have misrepresented themselves will be aggressively turned away at the event.. Emails (both men & women) with photos will receive first priority. Looking forward to a great time!